Ideas to help get things going for you...

It's date night and the plan is what can you do to spice things up. Here is a fantasy that can help you think of ways to perk things up before getting to the bedroom or where ever you plan to make love. The name of my fantasy guy is Evan...he is really handsome and I just love being in his company.

So, Evan and I have planned to meet at my favorite place to eat. I love going there because the food is great, but the atmosphere is even better. The side are lined with booths and the table clothes go to the floor. The are rounded in shape so you can scoot close together and around to the back of the booth for a little more private moments together.

I arrive just a little early and go to the bar. The plan is to pretend to have never met before and pick each other up there.

I order a glass of red wine and sit waiting. I am approached by a very nice looking man who begins to chat with me. We talk for a few moments but when he offers to buy me another drink, I decline the offer and let him know I am meeting someone tonight. He lets me know his disappointment and walks away. I don't have to wait long when in walks a very handsome man. He sits a few stools away from me and we do the eye flirt thing with teasing glances and smiles. He walks towards me and I lean in his direction. He is wearing a business suit and looks very good in his clothes. I am wearing a low cut black top with a necklace that dances in between my breasts. I am also wearing a silky soft printed skirt that comes just above the knees. Being a BBW, I always choose clothes that cover more of me but try to maintain a very sexy attitude when dressing.

"Hi," he says with a smile, "I'm Evan. Are you alone or waiting for someone?"

"I'm waiting for someone that I've never met before," I state, "but would love some company until she arrives. We are suppose to meet here and then have dinner together."

"Who is this lady your meeting," Evan asks with a raised eyebrow, "Is she a friend or lover?"

I laugh at his suggestion and reply, "She is a new business associate and she is very late. I've about given up on her."

Evan leans in and whispers in my ear, "I hope she's a no show. I would enjoy sitting with you and getting to know you better over a meal. You can learn alot about a woman as she eats with you. It can be very erotic, you know."

"HHHmmmm! You know how to go right to the point of things, don't you? No small talk here. I like that," I croon.

"I'm going to give her another 5 minutes and then I'll take you up on your offer, Evan. What do you say to that." I ask.

"Why wait, let's get a table and have some fun getting to know each other," he states simply. "What is your name, sweetie! Bartender, another glass of wine for the lady and I'll have another stocth."

"Oh, I like sweetie, but you can call me Nani," I say playfully. "I think you are right, why wait, let's get that table and I'll contact my no show another time."

"Please bring our drinks over to our table when there ready," Evan requests of the bartender. The bartender nods and says he'll bring them right away.

We go over to the hostess desk and I give her my name for the reservation. Why not use for me and Evan instead of waiting for my no show. She takes us over to my favorite booth and gives me a wink and menu. I already know what I want, but wait for Evan to open his and begin to look at the choices.

"Well, Nani," he says, "what are you having tonight?"

"I just love their grilled petit serloin done medium rare, grilled veggies and garlic mashed potatoes" I state. "How about you?"

"I think the prime rib for me with salad and baked potato with everything on it," he says. He waves for our waiter and he gives them our order.

"Thank you for ordering for me, Evan," I say, "I like a man who takes charge."

The bartender brought our drinks over and we begin to talk. Evan takes a sip of his drink and moves his hand around my shoulder resting it just above me without touching me. I shiver just slightly from the anticipation. "Are you cold, Nani," he asks with concern, "let me give you my coat jacket to warm you up or would you prefer that I put my arm around you to warm you."

"I don't think I need your jacket, but think your arm around me will be enough to warm me up, Evan. Thank you for offering," I say with a smile.

We move closer each sipping our drinks and feeling a bit of a buzz and warmth from our drinks. He smells so wonderful and I just lay my head back on his shoulder for a second and lean into his neck and breath him in very slowly. "My but you smell delightful, Evan," I state very sexy, "What are you wearing? I think it is my new favorite."

"It's called Sex on the Beach," he says with a laugh, "You smell wonderful as well. What are you wearing?"

"Delightful Nights is my perfume," I say, "As for what I'm wearing, are you talking about what you can see or what you don't see?"

"Well, I can see a beautiful woman wearing a very attractive outfit on the outside, but what's on the inside?" he asks with a smile.

"Very sexy unddies and bra," I reply with a wicked wink; I whisper in his ear, " the kind that leaves a man breathless and hungry for pleasure."

I then reach inside his coat jacket and tickle his side for a moment. He responds in a most pleasent way with an unexpected jump and slight giggle which was music to my ears. I back off just as I see that our food has arrived.

We begin to eat and cut our meat and talk some more. I finish my meal and just watch Evan as he eats. I am thinking in my mind it is time to take things to the next level while he is eating. I let him know that I will be right back and excuse myself to the ladies room. I am gone for just a few minutes and return and slip my unddies into his coat jacket. I wink at him and tell him to reach in for a quick surprise.

He does and with eyes wide he says, "This is going to be a very fun evening, Nani. They feel wet and sticky. I bet the smell and taste fabulous."

"They do," I say wickedly with a smile.

I lean into him again and lay my hand on his thigh. I begin to stroke his outer thigh and say, "I love coming here because you can hide from those watching with these table clothes. Don't you enjoy this place, too?"

"I had never thought about it before, Nani," he says, "but you are right. This is a great place for, uhm, playing."

"Yes, it is, Evan," I groan in his ear.

I continue to rub his thigh then reach for his inner thigh. He drops his fork from the reaction of my touch. Very lightly rubbing the inside of his thigh coming oh so close to his crouch. Each move brings me closer to him and closer. I reach over to the other side of him and continue to stroke his inner thigh on the other side. His reaction and arousal are just what I wanted from him.

I place my hand right on his crouch and apply the slightest pressure on him.

"HHHHHmmmmmmmm, Nani, that's wonderful," he says.

"I know, the food here is geat, Evan," I reply with a throaty laugh. "Just love it here. Do you want some more?"

"Oh, yes, I want more then I should have at this moment," he sighed, "Do you think I'm selfish or would you like some attention now?"

"Oh, I'm so full right now that I need to wait before dessert," I say playfully, "but dessert is my favorite here, Evan. They have the best chocolate lava cake. It just explodes in your mouth."

I lick my lips with wick intent at him and continue feeling him through his clothes. He is really getting hard for me as I stroke him and rub him all over down there. I begin to unzip his pants with my one hand. I am leaning with my elbow on the table with the other hand, so unzipping is taking longer then I want it to. Evan sets his fork and knive down and with one arm around me, he holds the top of his pants for me so I can unzip him the rest of the way.

I wait for him to take another bite of his steak and reach in and find no unddies on him. I am shocked at first, but laugh and begin stroking him and playing with earnest now. He moans and chews at the same time.

"This is so good," he pants, "so good."

I pull him out and rub his tip with one hand while reaching for a piece of ice out of my water glass with the other hand. I put the ice in my mouth and suck on it while I rub him with my cold fingers that were just in the water glass. He gasp from the coolness and wetness to the touch.

I, of course, am so wet and horny by this time that I don't really care about dessert. I tell Evan that I think I'm finished and need to leave. I have to get up early the next day to go to work. He looks at me and says, "We haven't gotten dessert yet. We can't leave without our dessert, sweet Nani."

He orders the Hot Chocolate Lava Cake and looks deep into my eyes. He asks the waitress to bring it quickly along with the check. We only wait about 3 minutes, because he had ordered it ahead of time. He then reaches under my skirt and begins to rub my sweet spot getting his fingers wet with my juices. I am moaning from his touch as I begin to each the chocolate cake and fudge. He brings his wet fingers out from under my skirt and dips it into the chocolate and brings it to my mouth to lick off. While he does that I reach down and get my hand wet and dip it into the chocolate for him. That's all it took. He has paid the check, zipped up his pants and pulls me out of the booth.

Evan pulls me to him with a deep kiss in the parking lot and says, "I can't wait til we get home, baby. You've give another great performance tonight and I'm too horny to wait for you any longer. Let's walk down the beach a little and find a secluded spot to be together. I feel like I'm going to explode soon. I can't wait to get inside you!"

We walk for a little and find a place...Life is so good! Come back again for more and I hope you get to live out this fantasy of mine yourself someday!! Nani

Online Dating Chatroom

Well, I finally have some stories to share with you all.

I have been chatting online with not just the Africa scammers, but some very interesting horny men. The best part is they like Big Beautiful women. Lucky me!!

So, I thought that I would allow you some insight into their world and mine to satisfy your curiosity on some fantasies that we have shared together. It has been fun and filled my mind with all kinds of fun-filled adventures.

I've met men who are very direct and want to be in control, men who want to be dominated and men who like both at different times. I met men who with their webcams have let me watch them stroke themselves to cumming...I think that is one of the most interesting things for me to know about them. They look at my picture and have a reaction that makes them want to let me see them get off on what the see as my beauty. I say this because I think of myself as average. So, it is a very new thought for me to know that men see me as a sex object and beautiful in their eyes. I have never felt beautiful before and I must say, it is quite enpowering.

Over the next few days and weeks, I will let you in on some of the fantasies we have shared and how much fun I have had in providing satisfacation to these men.

I have found one common thread with these men...imagination keeps them coming back for more. So, ladies, if you are stuck in a rut, use your imagination to ignite your lover and get his attention again. Change it up and you take control for once.

Until next time...I'm BBWNani!!

Finding stories to share with online dating service

Well, I joined one of the major online dating services and found out that some men are just plain scammers out there. Have you heard the one about the widow. He has 1 child living at home (he is my age which is 50+) and the child is about 8 years old. Now he has no other children, just the one but he was married at a younger age and they had their child while they were around 33...so does he think I can't add(?) and see that the supposed child is actually somewhere between 17 or 18 years old or older?

Anyway, some of them start out with bad English gammer mistakes, like leaving out "the" or writing in the sentence doesn't make sense when you read it. Some have very good gammer and you feel like you have met someone really nice. Their picture on the site always is of a very handsome man who looks younger then what he is claiming his age is. He lives in your state, but usually farther away then you want to travel for a first date to meet him and he always wants you to come to him, not come to your area or meet half way point. He doesn't like it when you suggest that you bring a friend with you for this first date, because as he puts it, you are just getting together to talk and having someone else there cramps his style. You finally get him to agree to meet you in your home town at a place where you know the people. Date and time are set and then all the sudden he is called "out of town" on business. His child is either with him on the trip or back home. Depends on the sitution he presents.

Next time he emails, he is in Africa closing down the business his father was running over there and moving it back to the states. He will be back in about a week time and then you can get together.

After about a day, you get another email from him telling you that his passport has been stolen and the child is sick and he has to get home and along with the passport all his money was taken. Then comes the heart string pulling and the begging you to send money by Western Union as soon as possible to help him and his son reunite.

I have a folder on my screen called Africa Scammers and there are currently 7 in this file now. It makes me so mad, but I love to play, so I just play along with them in the game. They never get a dime from me and by the time we are fininshed, I have all their information for sending the Westren Union Money Gram to them. I have let the sites that I've joined know of these conartists. It is quite an interesting game they play and if I wasn't working in the financial world some, I may have fallen for their false pleas for help.

So I am writing this to ladies out there who are online to beware of these snakes and don't get too involved. No them for who they are...have some fun in catching them and bringing them to light to the website you are working on, but don't ever send them money! You will never see or hear from them again and if they are really cunning, they could take you for a lot of money.

There aren't just men out there doing this, from what I've been told. Women have there online dating scams too. You lonely men out there...watch out for them as well.

I will post more another time. Have a wonderful day and as I research this online dating scene, I will get busy with some of the fantasies floating around in my head for you.

Stay alert to those scammers out there and know that I will always be BBWNani!

Moments of finding Courage

This is my first post and I'm not sure where to start. I've been toying with joining a few online dating sites to see how I am preceived by men out there. Life is very difficult at times for we ladies who are larger then the model women out there. Men can often be cruel, but I want to find out how much they enjoy my fantasy world...so, I will continue to think on this for a while and let you know what I decide.

Nani is Hawaiian for beauty...so I have chosen my Hawaiian name to greet you all with. Think of me as the big beautiful Nani when you come to read my blog. Sometime, I may add my picture to this blog to help you get a sense for who I really am and why men don't see me. But, if they only knew what was going on in my mind...LOL! they may not seem so distant and want to play.

Until we meet again, Finding peace in the subtle thoughts of my mind...I am BBWNani!